A social creature
December 9th, 2008Rosalind is learning to talk really fast. She says more words now than I can remember, and signs even more than that. And then there is a whole collection of “sounds”–like “mooo” for cow, “doot-doot” for bird, “rmmm rmmm” for car, etc. She is starting to put them in combinations, too: yesterday, for example, she told me “shh” (finger on lips, “baybeee” (signing baby) is sleeping (signing sleep.) She is also very proficient at the “mooo-uh moo-uh moo-uh” (signing more) “eez” (signing please) combination. I feel like I am constantly in a conversation with her now, although it’s in a crazy language that only I can understand. She can really let me know what she’s thinking about, even abstract thoughts and memories. It is so great.
One thing I’m particularly struck by in her language development is how social it reveals her to be. Two of her earliest words are the names of her best friends: “no-no-no” (Nolan) and “Azhzhus” (Azure.) She started saying “Nolan” because we were often looking at a picture of him in the beautiful scrap book Jane made. Several days in a row she said “no-no-no” on the same page, but we could hardly believe she was refering to her friend. The first time I heard her say Azure was even more impressive. It was the day after I started to believe in “Nolan”. We drove over to Michele and Azure’s house, and as I parked the car in front Rosalind looked out the window and started repeating “Azhzhus. Azhzhus. Azhzhzus.”
Now there’s not a day goes by that she doesn’t bring up these two, and always in combination with each other–even though it’s only rarely she sees them together. Yesterday we were in the grocery store and there was a very blond boy about the same size as Nolan. “No-no-no? No-no-no?” she asked questioningly. And then “Azhzhus.” Not really to me, just to herself. She was just remembering her friends.


